Daddy is the Bad Cop that enforces discipline. Mommy is the good cop that help soothes Daddy's wrath. It works fine as a start, but soon we realised such roles have its flaws.
Charles would start turning to Mommy and turn away from Daddy.
We do not want it to become a Mommy vs Daddy situation and thus decided, we would both be the enforcer as well as the soother. This way either one of us can be a source of discipline as well as love.
We are here as coaches and life partners in a family.
Let's hope we do a better job with Louis.
Bottom-line, never be seduced be the Bad cop / Good cop parenting
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